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 Posted: Wed 19:03, 25 May 2011 Post subject: Women's mother and brother face the same terminal |
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Two rushing, Sun Lijie looked very tired. Hope of a trainee journalist newspaper photo
Pan from the fourth anniversary of his death, his father a few days, the mother suddenly found advanced cancer. This is not the worst, the next day, the mother favorite son, received a death call - he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Save the mother, to save his younger brother, the burden of pressure in this shape looks better than slim people still thin woman. Sun Lijie spend all their savings, plus loans, they still can not solve the health care costs. Save the mother, or to save his younger brother, she seems to only get one out.
■ disaster
6 月 28 日 9 am,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Pinggu District Hospital Oncology. Sun Lijie open ward door, the mother Tong Sufang wearing breathing masks, 佝偻着身子 sitting in bed. Mother and daughter to avoid each other's eyes. Sun Lijie bedside went down,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], clutching her mother's hand, a long while silent. Tong Sufang talking, voice, and small and ambiguous, Sun Lijie Coushang, she understood the meaning of mother: chemotherapy.
This is the Sun Lijie are afraid to hear the words. Two days ago, Pinggu District Hospital issued a notice on the mother's critical condition. Doctor said the patient at all times of danger. If the family is willing, and now with some chemotherapy drugs can control the disease.
Sun Lijie the doctor shook his head. Shaking his head, Sun Lijie doing this action seems simple and natural, but stood before her doctor know of her, shaking his head, that she finally make a choice, give up the mother's life.
4 13, Sun Lijie heard from her, the mother said he got a bad cough, neck pain, could not eat, let Li Jie took her to the city's hospital examination. He was in a neighboring village called mother vegetable greenhouses odd jobs, Sun Lijie thought it was just a cold caused by coughing, no more thought, the day he took her to the Cancer Hospital of Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences.
10 days, Sun Lijie go to the hospital with his mother to take the results. Sun Lijie was a trace of fear. She stared at the doctor called out by the nurses, 10 meters away from the mother, the doctor was about to speak, suddenly rushing Sun Lijie said: estimate. Advanced cancer, cancer had spread.
Sun Lijie ask the doctor to continue to carry out other checks, hoping to overturn another doctor before the results of the argument. She stood a moment in the doctor's office, allow yourself to calm some,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then went out to the mother, the results did not come out, also need to continue checking.
next day, Sun Lijie with his mother to the hospital for a blood examination project, settled home mother, brother SUN rock when playing over the phone. The call to Sun Lijie slightly uneasy, brother, said by telephone a headache, but not before the stage of a good read, recently increased. Sun Lijie not neglect the afternoon with him to the hospital.
CT room, Sun Lijie dignified face again to see the doctor. Heavens.
Sun Lijie think you want to say something to the doctor and asked something, but the lips were dry mouth are unable to pronounce the sound several times, she covered her mouth, not to cry out loud, my brother in corridor, but the tears finally came out. Patient if the doctor also said something to her, Sun Lijie only see the lounge area of the TV screen flickering constantly changing, there have been waiting outside the examination room patients from the probe, but also stand to stay inside the woman that look of the leak. When she recovered consciousness, when the doctor does not know when it has gone out.
out of the CT room, Sun Lijie pretending to be easy to shoot my brother,
two days, that is, the fourth anniversary of his father's death, Sun Lijie go on the road and suddenly think of it.
choice
Sun Lijie no time for grief. She looks calm as usual, but my mind was to accelerate measures to plan the next step. That evening, she and her lover to her mother and brother back home Pinggu, and then raise money to find ways to call friends and relatives.
sleepless night was doomed.
think doctor about my brother told in danger at any time, Sun Lijie uphold and sleep next to his brother. He slept really quiet, serene look like a baby, has suddenly kicked her. Sun Lijie hand subconsciously brother-penetrating exploration breath,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], feeling his breath, Sun Lijie sigh. Complicated, immediately as the night presses her to breathe.
dying before his father said to her: take good care of your brother.
mother walking to school carrying their own small way.
thin waiting for his brother in the village school, the figure ... ...
sick father died, the family spent all their savings. Mother doing odd jobs and income. Brother still in school, it is to spend time. The cost of the family and loved ones are counting on their total monthly income of over three thousand yuan. The only small amount of savings at home, with relatives and friends scraped together, a total of less than fifty thousand dollars. Mothers need chemotherapy, my brother needed surgery. Real economic situation means that she must choose between his mother and brother.
mother advanced cancer, may also be some time before boil worse, but my brother is always dangerous to life.
dawn, the Sun Lijie severely heart, made a choice: first, to save his brother.
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to settle at home for his mother, his brother returned to the city to stay with Sun Lijie Beijing Armed Police General Hospital. After two major operations, the younger brother's brain tumor was successfully removed. Rock was unconscious after SUN. Sun Lijie keep all day and night in the intensive care room door, the moment can not sit down. Finally, my brother opened his eyes, said:
with the follow-up treatment, his brother's condition gradually stabilized. Brother can eat that day, Sun Lijie feel a little relieved. Then came the message home, the mother Tong Sufang condition suddenly deteriorated and was admitted to Pinggu District Hospital.
Since then, Sun Lijie began a life on both sides of hiding and running. In front of her mother and brother were concocted a lie to avoid the spirit of combat. Sun Lijie told his mother, his brother led the study and pressure headaches,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the doctor asked resting, it can not go home. My brother asked why my mother does not see himself, the Sun Lijie added that her mother and weak, lose a day of nutrient solution, could not get away.
brother's ward, there is a small bench with four barricaded Reluctant to hire bed, Sun Lijie shrinking every night to sleep on the bench. As long as the care of relatives and friends to back her brother, Sun Lijie back home the first time the hospital would accompany his mother. Because the tumor has spread to the lungs, Tong Sufang Biede can not lie down to breathe. Sitting day and night together with her daughter.
Stronger life mother has never been directly to their own requirements. Sure wish I could take her mother better conditions in the city hospital for treatment, but because of money, and now even chemotherapy can not meet her demands. loss of filial opportunities. Doctor told her the high risk of recurrence of the disease, after radiotherapy, as the patient's physical condition may also be chemotherapy. Conservative estimate of follow-up costs also need 10 million. Radiotherapy only got enough money now to pay a little bit.
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meet the first and Li Jie, the slight woman sitting opposite me, uninterrupted chat with me for a long time, no tears. Lies and the hiding of the disease among family members choose to let her sleepless nights, she needs to talk.
23 years old his father died, she began to support the family, for my brother to school, home, big or small a person by her decision. The heavy burden because her parents, married for three years Lijie dared to children.
48 hours were enough to defeat two of the diagnosis, do not eat during the day and night without sleep, the two are hard to run around to take care of the patient's smile melted in the Sun Lijie perseverance. But let her mother's guilt can not be relieved. During the interview, Sun Lijie put it up, that is, mother. She said good, strong mother has been his role model.
mother said her daughter is close to the small jacket, Sun Lijie, and especially pro-mother. Mother and daughter together as long as there is so much to say. Li Jie in the field reading, the mother and daughter every two weeks through a letter. Are in a foreign land, the mother often read plain text, Sun Lijie feel like the happiest person. But now, even in the silent night the mother and daughter sit near, the mother rarely spoke. Mothers do not have the financial ability to swallow the Sun Lijie guilty of chemotherapy.
Sun Lijie not look directly at her mother's eyes. Because in the eyes of the students revealed a desire and sad for her unbearable.
running between two hospitals in the past two months, Sun Lijie had a nearly slept soundly. She quickly weight loss, so now can not eat, can only rely on milk to maintain. She used this sort of masochistic way to save himself on the mother's guilt. She told me, her only hope is his brother alive. If you are alive, just give her the opportunity to pay.
due to economic reasons, the Sun Lijie has abandoned the mother of chemotherapy, and now for the same reason, she once again faced with giving up sensible brother. Stronger in the Sun Lijie final choice to the community for help, while has its own concerns: the mother and brother do not know themselves and each other's condition, the secret can not say broken.
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